From Our Founder

 

Hi friends!

Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about three of my friends: Jenny, Erin, and Sam. The four of us met when we all lived in LA about 12 years ago.

Now, we are all scattered across the country and, until the pandemic, we didn’t really keep in close contact with one another.  In fact, the last time we all saw each other was at this wedding in 2017.

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One of the unexpected gifts of the pandemic was a re-connection with loved ones, across the miles, via technology. When we were all cooped up at home, craving connection – we took to Zoom, FaceTime, Marco Polo, etc to find those connections.

Jenny, Erin, Sam, and I went from an occasional text every few months pre-pandemic, to daily video messages on Marco Polo throughout the last year (P.S. if you haven’t discovered Marco Polo, it’s such a great app – highly recommend).

We read Glennon Doyle’s Untamed together, but we also talked about thousands of other things – relationships, pets, trauma, food, travel, isolation, work – everything.

When I think back on how my relationship with these women impacted me over the last year, one specific word comes to mind: healing.

Last week, while I was listening to this Brené Brown podcast, I came to understand why my relationship with these women has been so healing for me. 

The Unlocking Us episode featured Oprah and Dr. Bruce Perry, as they discussed their new book, “What Happened to You? Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing.”

I think this book should actually be required reading for all therapists, because it goes into the nuances of “little t trauma” and “big T Trauma“, and explores how we can leverage the things that happened to us, in a way that builds resilience for us. 

Dr. Perry and Oprah also discuss the concept of post-traumatic wisdom – exploring how the brain can repair itself and build new pathways that did not exist before.

The key to this repair? Relationships.

Dr. Perry states, “The contractor for the reconstruction process is relationships.” He goes on to say, “You can have the best therapist in the world but if you only see them once a week, and you have nobody else in your life, you are never going to get better. It’s all about relationships. Relationships are the agent of change.”

My relationship with Sam, Jenny, and Erin has certainly been an agent of change in my life this past year. Like most everyone, we’ve all four experienced little t traumas or big T Traumas in our life.

But through the healing power of relationships, we’ve been able to build new pathways to ground and center us, to find wisdom, and to build resilience and healing.

How about you? Does this bring any relationships to mind that have been agents of change in your life?

Or, perhaps you have a particular client in mind – how might they develop relationships that can aid in their path toward healing?

As always, if you have anything you’d like to share, I’d love to hear it!

Warmly,

Rachel

 
Rachel McCrickard, LMFT

Rachel McCrickard, LMFT

Rachel is the CEO & Founder of Motivo, a HIPAA-compliant video platform connecting mental health therapists to the clinical supervision hours needed for licensure. She's also a LMFT, and brings her years of experience as both a therapist and a supervisor to her vision for Motivo. She also is a huge fan of pizza and yoga, in that order.

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